Random thoughts #1
Kill them with kindness. Sometimes it's not the ideal thing to do, I think. Whatever that you do, whenever you do it, sometimes others won't see it as kindness and respect or as helpful. They might never put in a good word or say "thank you". I know that it's not right to expect anything in return for all that you do. But we are humans and it's always in the back of our mind. Are they going to help us just like the way we are helping them? Are they going to help us in need?
And as always we brush these questions with "don't expect anything in return". If we are not helping them they are more likely to put in not so nice words about us. It's like an open bank, you take what you want and don't give anything in return. People are going to judge you no matter what, they are going to judge you whether you help them or not. But you should help them in need. It distinguishes between you and them. You should help them in need. Don't help others thinking that they might put in any good word for you. They might or might not.
And as always we brush these questions with "don't expect anything in return". If we are not helping them they are more likely to put in not so nice words about us. It's like an open bank, you take what you want and don't give anything in return. People are going to judge you no matter what, they are going to judge you whether you help them or not. But you should help them in need. It distinguishes between you and them. You should help them in need. Don't help others thinking that they might put in any good word for you. They might or might not.
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