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This morning I woke up with immense happiness. We have everything that we need in life right now. We are put in this place, at this time with everything that we ever needed in our life right now. So there is no point in being sad,if you haven't got something that you wanted because right at this moment we have everything that's supposed to be in our life.  There's no bigger happiness than your family's happiness and helping someone in need. Waking up early in the morning, drinking hot coffee, good music and a book is all that you need to cheer yourself up.  I hope you all had a wonderful day. You deserve all the happiness in this world. Be the light, the smile, the helping hand that someone needs today. Thank you for being a part of my happiness.

I have been through the hell and back. I have lost people. I have altered, shrunk myself so that others could feel comfortable. I have been given deadlines to alter myself physically. I am comfortable in the skin I am in. Many times I have looked myself in the mirror to find flaws and faults pointed out and pictured by others. They might be concerned about the way I am, but just take a look at me, am i that worse, am i that worse that you need to think about telling me to be a certain way. It aches me so damn much. They might be concerned, but please know that I am a human too. I get hurt as easily as you get hurt too. But I would never hurt you with my words. I don't want to run around like a crazy headless chicken. I don't want to chase something that is perfect in someone's eyes.  I want to be my perfect self in whatever way that I may be. I'm putting in that extra work and everything, but it's not because they told me or because I want to prove them. I do it be

We have our insecurities, doubts, setbacks, comebacks, anxiety and this is what makes us , undeniably us. We may be broken,beaten up by situations and sometimes we might not rise up as quick as it takes. Sometimes it makes us wonder how we are in this situation that we are in. We may have lost more people than making new friends. We might be alone at times. We might still be awestruck by life. We might have not found our path ,yet. We might have walked away from people and situations that no longer helps us grow. We might be barely holding things  in place.We are super humans, yet we do not recognise this. It's time we put or doubts and insecurities behind. We are constantly doubting ourselves, if we are doing right or wrong. And this self doubt has stopped us from reaching heights. We have to accept the fact that we are broken at times and that's not going to stop us anymore.

I am a human, a person who gets hurt, who cries , who laughs, smiles and do all these. I have been hurt by others , but more than that , i have blamed myself for hurting them ( even if i have said the truth), but most of all for letting them get to me. The first instinct that I get is to protect myself from all of this. By doing so, I have somewhat developed a thicker skin ,more like a metal or an armour. And I have made my heart to become colder than ever before. It's as if I am immune to this. But what it did was that it made me feel numb. It made me carry weight that I no longer needed. It made me rigid. All these feelings had put on a veil in front of my eyes and I no longer saw the beauty in the world. I have had my heart broken lots of times and no not by any guy. I have had it broken by people whom I have trusted and invested my time in, people who are no longer a part of my life.I have wasted my time and energy to fit in but I simply felt left out. And I have said and he

Being positive is not my forte. My sister always tells me to be positive regardless of what the situation is, and I never listen to her. I tell her that it is really hard to stay that way.  It's sometimes really hard to stay positive, to be happy and not feel crappy all the time.  But as hard as it seems ,it's like a breath of fresh air. There is always light at the end of the freaking  tunnel and it so true.  Being positive and believing that everything is going to be just fine is the most comforting thing.When you think and feel positive you see everything whether it's a situation or interaction with anyone in a whole new light.You see a situation which was going in a downward spiral to be different. You feel all energised and have an attitude that you could take on anything. Let's all be positive for change.Well that's it for today.

My favourite word nowadays is low-key. I have stumbled upon a saying for a while which goes like this" stay low key ,not  everyone needs to know everything about you or your life" and it hit home for me. We are constantly doing things being extremely aware of what others are going to think about us. It's like we have placed a huge chunk of our life in somebody else's hands. And this constant checking for opinion is damage for us and for what we do.  It's like our own identity as a person is vanishing slowly and without us noticing any of it. You do you. Only the few people in your life who helps you to grow  should only be given this permission .Hustle in silence and let success make noise.

Kill them with kindness. Sometimes it's not the ideal thing to do, I think. Whatever that you do, whenever you do it, sometimes others won't see it as kindness and respect or as helpful. They might never put in a good word or say "thank you". I know that it's not right to expect anything in return for all that you do. But we are humans and it's always in the back of our mind. Are they going to help us just like the way we are helping them? Are they going to help us in need?  And as always we brush these questions with "don't expect anything in return". If we are not helping them they are more likely to put in not so nice words about us. It's like an open bank, you take what you want and don't give anything  in return. People are going to judge you no matter what, they are going to judge you whether you help them or not. But you should help them in need. It distinguishes between you and them. You should help them in need. Don't help