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 Anything that threaten my peace of mind and self worth is too much of an annoyance to me. Anyone who has never known me will only judge me by the way my life seems to them. But I'm proud of the decisions that I have took without anybody's help.  The most important decision of your life has to be taken /decided by you, even if it hurts you or any other. After that ,you are free, it's like a new start, a new beginning on your own terms. You have to be clear with you decisions.  Others in your life might not have to take it seriously as much as you and that's okay.  Self worth is important, it values the person that you are. It's as if you are drawing a clear line and that's it, nothing will ever cross that line as they know where they should stand or how they interfere with your life. Know your self worth and it shouldn't​ be a value that's threatening to others, it's a value that's within you and it shouldn't be disguised with something tha...

Change is inevitable. Change is not evil. We only address​ change as bad when it doesn't happen according to our ways. You grow up both physically and mentally and that's a change. Leaves​ fall off a tree ,that's a change. You need to constantly change, otherwise your are stuck in some time and place. Change does not happen suddenly. It shakes us, breaks us apart and it feels like we are losing the ground beneath our feet and sometimes it's as easy as anything else. Change is powerful as well. Change is good , change is necessary. 

Wake up early in the morning​,early as in let's say between 5 to 6. Stay in bed, pray for a while or think of what you are grateful for. Let's start with -I'm grateful for seeing yet another beautiful day, for being able to spend it with my loved ones and so on. While you are getting up and dressing up, smile, put on your favourite music and enjoy drinking your coffee or tea, read your favourite book for a while. One of the important things that i am keen on is to have a good and slow morning because it's going to set the tone for the rest of your day. You and I know that after all that the day is going to be a whirlwind and you are going to be busy.  Slow down and just enjoy everything that's in front of you , breathe in the fresh dewy cold air into your lungs, as you are breathing imagine that you are being lighter and happier than you have ever been. Find time to do the things you love in the morning because it's going to make a difference to the way you are...

Let me run around beneath the dark foliage of your dreams. Let me in on all your secrets, what makes you click, your favourite scent, your favourite music, your go to happy series /movies. Do you want to run around in open meadows just like me? Do you seek a life that's filled with adventure? Do you want to travel the world and go to all the café's, monuments and see sunsets from different places? Well ,do you?

I think one of the important thing that we forget is to love ourselves, to tell ourselves that we are good enough to do all that we love to do and to take care of ourselves. There is no other greater love than self love. It all starts within you. If you don't love yourself, how will you ever receive the love that's flowing towards you? It has to start with you. You cannot bury yourself in some other form of love and call it self love. You need to stay with yourself even when you think it's not working out, because you have nowhere else to go. You are your home. You need to build yourself up because you have torn yourself up far too much. Let's stop that. Love yourself. Tell yourself that it's okay to be sad sometimes. Take care of yourself, it's okay to put yourself first. If you are not able to help yourself, how on earth can you help someone else? They way you love yourself sets tone for everything else that comes in your life. There is a whole lot of love in...

One of the things that make me happy is seeing light peep through the window. I think it is absolutely beautiful. It makes me feel so happy. I don't own this picture. Credits-unknown It resembles something that has a deeper meaning for me. For example, let's say the window is a person. We are much more transparent than we think we are.  We are sometimes transparent of  our feelings, whether we are happy or sad or anything at all. And most of the time it shows up.  In short, I think whatever feelings or whatever good that's in us ultimately shines through. It always finds a way to shine through us and it's a beautiful vision.  Good night everyone. I hope you all had a beautiful day and hope the coming days are beautiful too.

Elizabeth Gilbert takes you on a whimsical journey. All though it might seem confusing at times, she takes her time to explain what is what.  BIG MAGIC lifts up a weight from our shoulders of notions of helping the world be a better world. It immediately takes effect as you feel lighter and lighter and ready to take on the knowledge that she is going to provide you with. If helping the world is what you love, then do it. Don't take up this task as if it's a job that you should do. Liz Gilbert talks about how ideas are individual beings in this universe and they are constantly in search of receptive souls who will help them reach the universe as songs, as books and so on. She helps us how to not feel immense pain when we encounter failure.  You must always move onto the NEXT project or whatever it is. She tells us how to not put on responsibility on our God given talents/vocation/hobby.  All what is needed from us is to release it onto the universe regardless of what the...