ontherocks

When you were a kid, you were innocent. You didn't know what is what. You were oblivious to everything. Everything was new, and nothing hurt you. You were oblivious to the pain, you didn't know what heartache was and you didn't need to know. You were happy, no one told you to be like this or to be like that. You could have been anyone you wanted to be a superhero or anything that you wished for. Everyone was your best friend. You had best friends in almost all the classes you have been too. Kids were not mean back then. Cue to the time you were a teenager. Everything is new. You feel like you want to fit in. You only have a certain set of friends. You tend to do everything with them. Your family is out to get you. Your friends are your real family and your family not so much. You think, no you are sure your family does not understand you. "They don't understand me the way my best friend understands me" that was your motto. All that juicy gossip just tend to f...

Do you ever feel as though you have thick walls on either side of you? Do you feel as though if you ease yourself up, let go and breathe, that the walls might crush you? This is what I feel most of the time. I feel that I cannot breathe freely as much as I want. I am constantly anxious about my surroundings, the way that I look, the way that I walk. I feel as though I have to contain myself.  I cannot show myself too much, what if they don't like me for who I am? I have no idea why I would want to feel this way, but this is what I feel. Each and everyone one of us suffers from some form of anxiety. On the surface, they might look as though everything is fine and everything might actually be fine but this might actually be what they feel. This is hard enough for me to explain and sometimes might actually be hard for the other person to understand. Just know that what you see on the surface is not all that is to that person. Be kind, maybe they might ask for help, maybe they don...

Hey you, You might not know this now but you are stronger than you have ever been. You will face many obstacles. You are going to be alone. But don't fret, you are going to be alive than you have ever been. You are going to be independent.You are going to comfortable in spending time alone with yourself. You will meet new people, some will stay and some won't   At some point in your life, you might think you are going to fall apart, but you will stand tall again. You are goingnto pick yourself up, not once but many times. Your family is going to be your strength and your backbone. At times you might feel as though everything is happening against you. During these times, you will learn to go with the flow. You will find your calling and in it, you will be happy. You are going to live.You are going to survive this. 

Have you ever noticed that whenever you self-doubt yourself, you bring yourself down? If you have the power to do this to yourself, imagine what you could do if you channelize the opposite of this. Each of us is power sources. We have an infinite flow of energy through us. Imagine what you could do, if you use it effectively in thinking positive thoughts rather than negative thoughts? Use this power within you to think positively and your life starts to unfold itself in a positive way. Each of us is meant for greatness. All we need to do is to find this power within us and to unleash it in everything that we do.Whenever we face an obstacle, we think we cannot go any more and we cannot do anything any more. Use this power to move forward.

Society rules our world. I say I rule my world. I am the ruler of my life ,of my world. Society shapes our world.  If you take a look at me, you would see many flaws which are not flaws at all. What is a flaw? Who says that it is a flaw. Society tries to put  people in certain boxes and they have their labels. Too short, too tall, too thin, too fat. (To this I say I am a miniature sized human who have been blessed with curves that others which they have. So f**k you society). Why do we even have a box? Who did this? I am me. Who I am is who I am. There is no one like me. There is no one like you other than yourself. So, why the box with label? What I want is to slip through the cracks of this society and truly be who I am.

Who determines the height of success?  Is it the society ? or is it yourself? What I perceive or set as success for myself will not be success for another.  How can you then say a person is successful or not? Does success mean one should be rich or does it mean one should be happy in what he/she does?  If you have set a goal and you accomplished it, isn't that success. Success means going to bed at night knowing that you have given everything you have in order to built your empire. You cannot do everything at once, but give your all to what you do. You alone can only define how successful you are. You are the boss of your own empire, your own conscious. If  you think that you want something, you have all the power to go and get it. You are youelr own power house. This is something that has benn crossing my mind lately.

A person told me that i was wasting away my talents, that i was wasting away my opportunities.  Even though i rebelled against it and stated that it wasn't right, i was completely wrong.  Its not about doing everything perfectly, its about grabbing the opportunity that is right in front of you. I know what  I am good at and if  I don't give input to it, I am doing a great deal less to what I know I'm good at. If you are not taking that opportunity, how on Earth can you give anything to anyone?